For me, SADOMASOCHISM is wholly non-sexual and that I never wish to have it to guide to any such thing intimate.

For me, SADOMASOCHISM is wholly non-sexual and that I never wish to have it to guide to any such thing intimate.

Musings on Sex and Intimate Variety

This is created for your festival of Aces on “Touch, Sensuality, and Non-Sexual Physical closeness”

My personal mind simply does not making an intuitive hookup between the two. The pleasure I have from BDSM is simply about having fun with the bodily feelings and mental claims that SADOMASOCHISM requires.

It might be ouchy, thuddy, stingy of impact enjoy. The warmth from leaking wax, or perhaps the icy of an ice cube. Or tickly, scratchy, comfortable experience enjoy. The coarseness of hemp line. It may be sense scared, safe, captured , free of charge, in control, prone, powerful, comforted. And/or provided experience with a pal or mate, producing a lovely gamble world with each other. Being a canvass for another’s creativeness.

For me, it is not about getting turned on or sexual joy. It doesn’t matter if I’m maybe not sexually (or romantically or sensually) drawn to each other. I really do SADO MASO because i wish to feel something, with my entire body, attention and heart. So when an easy method of linking with a buddy or partner.

It’s difficult to describe exactly what is non-sexual SADOMASOCHISM. Continue lendo